I like desserts. Here's my theory on dessert. When you have a dessert go for it. Really enjoy it. Add chocolate syrup and sprinkles.
BUT don't eat mediocre desserts. If that treat in front of you isn't delicious then why waste your calorie budget on it? - This cookie is pretty mediocre. I'm not going even going to finish it. Someone brings a dessert to a gathering you don't have to eat it if you don't love it.
Some desserts I've made on my own. Here are the recipes that I like the best.